Read Ephesians 4:25-31
Introduction
I understand now why so many people call the Bible a manual on what to do and not to do. When I look at this passage:
- Speak the truth
- Don’t let the sun go down on your anger
- Give no place for the devil
- Work with your hands
- Let no corrupting words proceed from your mouth
- Impart grace to those who hear you.
- Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you
- Be kind to one another with tenderness and forgiveness
It seemed like every other list you would make for yourself so you can be a good Christian, until we note this truth in verse 30:
And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. (Ephesian 4:30 NKJV).
When we talk about the Holy Spirit, it’s more than a mere list. Who is the Holy Spirit, and what does it mean to grieve Him?
Who is the Spirit?
The Holy Spirit is a person—the third person of the Trinity. He is the primary link in the ministry of the Word. The Triune Godhead coequally and coeternally coexists as One. Each member of the Trinity functions individually with Father God as the Executive, Christ Jesus as the Architect, and Holy Spirit as the contractor.
The Holy Spirit uniquely and distinctly works in you and the church. He is not silent nor unmoving. The Holy Spirit has the characteristics of a person in this way:
- He possesses the attributes of mind (Rom 8:27), will (1 Cor 12:11), and feeling (Eph 4:30).
- He engages in activities — revealing (2 Pet 1:21, teaching (John 14:26), witnessing (Heb 10:15), interceding (Rom 8:26), speaking (Rev 2:7), commanding (Acts 15:6-7), and testifying (John 15:26).
- He has a relationship with us. He can be grieved (Eph 4:30), lied to (Acts 5:3), and blasphemed (Matt 12:31-32).
- The Holy Spirit possesses the divine attributes of the Godhead: He is eternal (Heb 8:14), omnipresent (Ps 139:7-10), omnipotent (Luke 1:35), and omniscient (1 Cor 2:10-11). (Omnipresent is widely or constantly encountered, omnipotent is unlimited power and can do anything, and omniscient is unlimited knowledge — knowing everything.)
- The Holy Spirit is personal and intimate. He can be known by name: the Spirit of God, the Spirit of Christ, the Comforter, the Holy Spirit, the Holy Spirit of promise, the Spirit of truth, the Spirit of grace, the Spirit of life, the Spirit of adoptions, and the Spirit of holiness.
The Holy Spirit and you
The Holy Spirit dwells in you. Your relationship with the indwelling Spirit of Christ will show in your day-to-day life. Remember this: Our thoughts become words, our words become actions, our actions become habits, and habits lead to our character. Following the lead of the Holy Spirit makes a difference.
Christians have the option to behave in a way that goes against their Christian beliefs by following their worldly desires. We’re even warned not to go there in the Word; when we do so, it grieves the Spirit.
The Holy Spirit not only “seals” us for the day of redemption — He prepares us for that day. This process is called sanctification — growth or maturity in holiness (set aside for God’s purposes) and righteousness (in right standing with God). On our part, we are to actively grow and put to death any sin we’ve discovered in our hearts and minds.
Only the power of the Holy Spirit can help us mature and cultivate an intimate love relationship with Christ. Without the Holy Spirit, we are immature, and our relationship with Christ suffers. Is it any wonder the Spirit is grieved?
Being Led by the Spirit
Being led by the Spirit involves progressively or daily putting to death our sinful appetites. Not all Christians choose to follow the lead of the indwelling Spirit. The extent to which you follow the Spirit’s leading directly affects your willingness to obey and conform to His will, word, and ways.
The Holy Spirit’s prompting will never encourage you to act contrary to Scripture. The Holy Spirit guards us against habitual sin, illuminates Scripture, and informs our souls.
Our daily effort to obey and continually be led by the Spirit makes a difference. How can we be sensitive to the prompting of the Holy Spirit if we only acknowledge Him periodically?
Do we not know that we are the temple?
You are the Temple
Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God lives in you? If anyone defiles the temple of God, God will destroy him. For the temple of God is holy, which temple you are. 1 Corinthians 3:16-17
The temple is merely a building until the Holy Spirit of God’s presence enters it. Corruption and adultery can destroy it and cause it to come to ruin. Unworthy, immature, or crude behavior grieves the Spirit, as do false teaching, pride, and immorality.
Once the Spirit of God leaves the building, it is worthless and a mere shell. The Spirit of God does not “leave” us, but we can push Him away and ignore him. Ultimately, our actions cause grief to the Holy Spirit. .
Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Honor God
You honor God by remaining in Him, especially in the right relationship. The stewardship of your spirit, soul, and body is essential. What God has redeemed should not end up in the trash pile. Since the Spirit dwells in us, we are not self-governing or self-sustaining, for we belong to the Lord. Our liberty is in Christ within—our destruction is without.
We were bought at a great price with the precious blood of Christ Jesus. So, let us not grieve the Spirit by making His dwelling place uncomfortable. Let us diligently remember that we belong to the Lord in holiness (set aside for His good purposes) and righteousness (in right standing with Him).
Indwelling Holy Spirit
The spirit of a man is the lamp of the LORD, searching all the inner depths of the heart. Proverbs 20:27 NKJV.
The Lord’s light penetrates the human spirit and exposes every hidden motive and the inner depths of the heart. The human spirit is God’s “contact point” where He shines His light, showing us our true nature.
The Holy Spirit dwells in the human spirit the moment we’re saved. Here, we commune with God. Fellowship with God is only possible because He makes it so, and He makes it so through the move of the Holy Spirit.
The manifestation of the Spirit of God begins in the human spirit, transforms the mind, and sanctifies the soul. There is only one throne in the human spirit, and only one can sit on it: either oneself or the Lord.
What Does it Mean to Grieve the Spirit?
To grieve the Spirit is more than pushing the Spirit out of the way; it is allowing the flesh, the world, and the enemy to have their way with your soul.
When we push the Holy Spirit from His rightful place, He feels ultimate grief. He watches as we destroy our loving relationship with God. No matter how hard He tries to get our attention, we silence Him, and His counsel and wise instruction are met with deaf ears. His help is shunned, and fellowship is rejected.
To grieve the Spirit is the first step to losing our first love and, to be honest, it breaks the heart of God.
In Conclusion
Devotion to God becomes dynamic when the Holy Spirit is allowed free access to our lives.
What happens when He freely teaches and counsels you, and you follow His instruction? What happens when He gifts you, and you allow the gift to manifest in your life?
The Holy Spirit remains ungrieved!
God desires an exclusive, loving relationship with you. That He promises to receive us and dwell within us should motivate us to a devoted life and uninterrupted fellowship that does not grieve the Spirit.
Embrace this truth, and you will not grieve the Spirit.
Don’t grieve God. Don’t break His heart. His Holy Spirit, moving and breathing in you, is the most intimate part of your life, making you fit for Himself. Don’t take such a gift for granted. Ephesians 4:30, The Message.
May the Lord bless and keep you!
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